Author: Lee Alison

Looking Rich

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Recently a lot of my friends said I look rich…. Prolly due to the impressions I gave.

I just want to say I work hard not to live averagely, if you know what I mean. There are days I left work at 11pm, I work out during lunchtime, sometimes skipping dinners etc.

Obviously, I would want to work my way up the ladder, improving my lifestyle, more travels and gaining new experience.

Then again, they prolly only see one side of me. So, I am not defending myself cause I want to be rich too ☺️ law of attraction aye?

The Truth About 30s

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Nobody tells you how complicated your thirties can feel. How the ground shifts beneath you in ways you never expected.

Some friends are climbing the ladder at work, while others are walking away from careers that drained them. Some are traveling the world, while others are knee-deep in diapers and sleepless nights. Some are finally finding their voice, while others are grieving friendships that quietly faded away.

There is no one version of this decade and yet the pressure whispers that you’re behind. That you should be further along. That you’re running late to a life you were promised. But maybe you’re not late at all.

Maybe you’re exactly on time for the life that’s meant for you. Because your 30s aren’t about keeping up. They’re about shedding what doesn’t fit, rebuilding with what does, and creating a life that finally feels like yours different, imperfect, beautiful, and true.

Enjoying Life in a Slow Lane

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Guess this year is all about slowing down life and de-prioritising.

Chanced upon this quote the other day.

Love your life. Take pictures of everything, tell people you love them, strike up conversations with strangers. Do the things that scare you. Because so many of us leave this world and no one remembers a thing we did. Make your life the best story ever told.

I have been practising this. Taking pictures, strike up convo with strangers at sports interest club, doing things that bring me huge change… life time. Sometimes I still wonder if I made the right decision, but guess there’s no turning back.

Today, I am here writing this journal, spending my time doing nothing at home. This is super duper rare you see. But, I am all good! Okay maybe not entirely (due to menstrual pain). I reckon I don’t need to be highly efficient at all times. Shall keep those energy for Mondays.

Cutting down on overtime with more sports, gatherings and outdoors 🍀 cause I worked too much last year, like too much! So I want to enjoy my life in slower lane, embracing new experiences. Always remind myself that life is a marathon, not a sprint. I could step down to recharge; back in actions when I feel better.

Actually, it’s not too bad to have an unproductive day once in a while. What do you think?

The Best Time Is Always Now

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In a matter of moments, a lifetime of dreams turned to ash.

A brutal reminder, life is terrifyingly fragile.

Everything you build, everything you hope for, everything you love, it all hangs by a thread.

So while you can, live, love, and don’t wait for happiness to start tomorrow.

🍀

Busan Breather

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Day 1- Singapore> Busan

Spaland Centum City, Nasari Sikdang, Gwangalli Beach, Life Like Juok

Day 2- Obok, Cloud Mipo, Haeundae Blueline Park, Seongjong Beach, Mipojib, Haeundae Traditional Market

Day 3- Eggdrop, Solsot, Gwanggan, Lotte, Obanjang, Haeundae

Day 4- Busan> Singapore

Bada Maru, Super Matcha, Shinsegae

Entering the Third Decade

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On 16 Dec morning, I became emotional. Responding to birthday wishes individually led me to reflect on how these individuals have significantly impacted my life. My family, close friends and colleagues — those who provide strength during challenging times.

Turning 30 is surreal, much like celebrating my 25th birthday yesterday. But I am confident that I can move forward with assurance, knowing these compassionate individuals will continue to support me. ❤️

I am grateful for all the treats and cakes (8 cakes in total), feeling exceptionally loved. The celebration unfolds over the week with varied groups, in an intimate setting. Love it!

This year’s marked by numerous accomplishments i.e completing certification, volunteering as alumni, being social committee, traveling to Switzerland, nurturing a 26-year friendship that includes 13 years of LDR, and fostering connections with new team. 🥂

Thank you everyone who has witnessed my growth. Let’s anticipate 2025, with more successes and social events. I can’t wait 😊✨

Little Things

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  • Little more gatherings in February, thanks to Chinese New Year 🧧
  • Little squash session, picking up new hobby
  • Little cycling session with the team, focusing on mental health in 2025
  • Little more pickleball session with new paddles!
  • Little increment cause…
  • Promotion in title🎈Little pat at the back
  • Little more birthday celebrations, witnessing a proposal too! ❤️
  • Little more Loheis 🍊
  • Little cooking at home. Only if I could open my restaurant someday 🍀
  • Little stroll and chit chat at Clarke Quay river on Valentine’s Day
  • Little more new friends, really glad I am going out again to meet more people!
  • Little change in status, still feeling surreal omg! 😍

Sometimes we tend to overlook little cues when we are overwhelmed in life. I broke down during 1-on-1 meeting with le boss. Burst out crying and both of us were shocked. I am getting better now, knowing the issue- stress over work, being a too goal oriented person.

Guess my friend’s pass on incident reshuffled my priorities. Am I okay to sacrifice spending time with my loved ones just for career and wealth. Perhaps not… Then again my promotion actually motivated me to work hard for next rank. Aiming VP before turning 40! Why took that long, my dad asked.

I have other priorities in life, I said. Change in status kinda anchor me down and idea of settling down sounds huge. But you know what, I am actually looking forward to it! Having a little family of mine, cozy space, and our puppy. This always reminds me life is not just about work. Though I work hard for rewards, but we came to the world once right, so why just work? Sounds so wise today!

Sharing little mementos in February.

Remembrance

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Felt like I was on a rollercoaster ride yesterday.

Glad to have received a message after few years to a moment of shock. Flashbacks from a decade ago kept resurfacing. We came a long way, from strangers to close friends, however, due to miscommunication and we never got the chance to clear up. Hope you are in a better place now, may we continue our journey next life. 🤍

Ending the post with your quote:

No one gets left behind, be it in school or in life.

Rest in peace, Xuan.

Journal Prompts for 2025

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1. What are 10 great things that happened or that you accomplished in 2024?

  • 5D4N trip in Penang, Kedah & Perak, on bridesmaid duty
  • Disney On Ice with le housemates
  • Hanbok, live octopus experience
  • Attended University of Manchester Southeast Asia Bicentenary Celebration
  • Family Photoshoot & retake corporate photo (after a decade)
  • USS Family Day/ Sentosa/ Movie by the beach with jies
  • Being a Certified Anti Money Laundering Specialist (CAMS)
  • Tried new sports- tennis & pickleball
  • Kulnari golf & JB outing with colleagues
  • Been to Disneyland for the first time in my life (princess at heart)
  • Travelled to dream country- Switzerland with le bestie, experiencing snow
  • Had awesome connections with my Blackpink girls and SOCCOM folks ❤️

I have more to write actually, but let’s keep it to myself.

2. What do you want to celebrate?

  • Entering the third decade!

3. How do you want to approach 2025?

  • Trust the process, everything happens for a reason.

4. What qualities do you want to cultivate?

  • Emotional maturity, patience and compassion.

5. What good habits do you want to continue adopting?

  • Being assertive, continue thriving & never give up.

6. How will commit to yourself?

  • To remember how hard it gets, I will always trust & choose myself unapologetically.

7. Where will you pour your attention?

  • Myself and connections

8. What habits or practices nourish you?

  • Workouts, read books, writing journals & listening to music

9. What do you want more of in 2025?

  • More sports, more books and more travels (sound like a plan!)

10. One small thing you do everyday to be yourself?

  • I will continue to remain genuine to others, true to myself.