The Truth About 30s

Nobody tells you how complicated your thirties can feel. How the ground shifts beneath you in ways you never expected.

Some friends are climbing the ladder at work, while others are walking away from careers that drained them. Some are traveling the world, while others are knee-deep in diapers and sleepless nights. Some are finally finding their voice, while others are grieving friendships that quietly faded away.

There is no one version of this decade and yet the pressure whispers that you’re behind. That you should be further along. That you’re running late to a life you were promised. But maybe you’re not late at all.

Maybe you’re exactly on time for the life that’s meant for you. Because your 30s aren’t about keeping up. They’re about shedding what doesn’t fit, rebuilding with what does, and creating a life that finally feels like yours different, imperfect, beautiful, and true.

Entering the Third Decade

On 16 Dec morning, I became emotional. Responding to birthday wishes individually led me to reflect on how these individuals have significantly impacted my life. My family, close friends and colleagues — those who provide strength during challenging times.

Turning 30 is surreal, much like celebrating my 25th birthday yesterday. But I am confident that I can move forward with assurance, knowing these compassionate individuals will continue to support me. ❤️

I am grateful for all the treats and cakes (8 cakes in total), feeling exceptionally loved. The celebration unfolds over the week with varied groups, in an intimate setting. Love it!

This year’s marked by numerous accomplishments i.e completing certification, volunteering as alumni, being social committee, traveling to Switzerland, nurturing a 26-year friendship that includes 13 years of LDR, and fostering connections with new team. 🥂

Thank you everyone who has witnessed my growth. Let’s anticipate 2025, with more successes and social events. I can’t wait 😊✨