Discovering New Sides Of Me

Finally, I am having all the time to spend. No work, no exam. Recently, I learnt the new sides of me by reading, watching drama, exploring the city:

  • I am a perfectionist. Still learning not to be so harsh on others and myself.
  • I hate showing vulnerability. Trying to open up gradually, hopefully.
  • I was never a flower person. Now I am obsessed!
  • Cooking enthusiast. Always excited about what to cook next!
  • Despite being an extrovert, I do enjoy me time. Some quiet time to write, listen and read.
  • Never stop being purposeful. Officially a certified first aider, and I might have found my retirement job too hehe. A trainer at Singapore Red Cross perhaps?
  • A truly wanderlust person. Visited Monet exhibition made me realized how much I love exploring countries with different culture. Working hard to travel 2 new countries annually, at least!

Bought 2 books recently, and I can’t wait to finish them. “13 Things Mentally Strong Women Don’t Do” and “Ultimate Leadership”. I learnt some not-so-good traits in me, working on how I can improve. Second book was meant for career progression. To be able to move to another level, I hope I could prepare beforehand, so as to achieve desirable results at the same time to have strong relationship with leaders, peers and subordinates. Still laughing that I am now at the stage reading such book to maximize the potential and empower your team, the book said. Hmm.

Chanced upon watching Korean drama called “18 Again” during long weekends, a guy was back to being 18 y/o again, trying to fix his relationship with his wife and kids. It made me knowing everyone has different path. Everything will work out eventually. Having kids could be a blessing. It’s okay to have arguments. Communication is about showing vulnerability, acknowledging one’s emotions, being open-minded, tolerant and showing love in actions, verbally. We used to think communication is about holding up all the emotions, not to worry others. We stop sharing feelings in words gradually to avoid disappointment, due to ego etc. So many things to learn in life aye. Feeling amazed that I am still discovering the new sides of me hmm.

Signed up a year membership for Flower Dome, so I can keep coming back for nice exhibitions! They were really nicely done. Feeling like a Disney princess everytime stepping into Flower Dome with different themes. I was there in March for Sakura. Sometimes I wish I am born a artistic person, but it seems like God has different plan for me. Wandering around Marina Bay Sands got me mesmerized good memories I had.

Here’s some memento to remember: